Using Vibrators for Your First Orgasm

For some women, achieving an orgasm during intercourse can be difficult if not seemingly impossible. There are many reasons for this challenge and they differ from person to person. They range from mental blocks to unknowing partners. Vibrators are a great tool for women who want to achieve orgasm, but need a little extra help.

Spend some time learning how your new vibrator works ahead of time. Play with all the buttons and nobs. Make sure it is fully charged, or if it a plug-in model, make sure there is plenty of electrical cord to help you move around. Preparation is key.

As you're preparing to use your new vibrator. Set out some time when you know no one will be around. Set the mood, play relaxing music, light candles, have a long bath with scented oils, and so on. Treat yourself like a queen.

Once you are good and relaxed and you understand how your toy works, start thinking sexy thoughts. What turns you on? Did your partner say or do something nice for you. Is there a sexy girl or guy at work? If it is your thing, watch a sexy movie or look at some magazines.

While your imagination is going wild gently start touching yourself. Play with your clitoris with your fingers, caress the inside of your labia, and do what feels good. Move you hands throughout your body. Linger where it tingles, and move on where it does not. Continue this dance between your body and your vagina until you really get turned on.