Sex Toys - Stuff We Love - 3

An oft asked question was ...How do I buy a sex toy for my partner!

Once you have decided what kind of toy you want, you will need to find it and buy it. The internet is your friend, so do your homework. Going with the best-selling or most popular toy is normally a good choice! Shopping for sex toys online is also a safe bet and it saves embarrassment because it is discreet. But, it's always better to head out to a store to see what's on offer.

Avoid intimidating toys. Sex toys are meant to enhance partnered sex; not to make partners second guess! And you don't want to go overboard with your choice. If it's your first buy for your lady love, then keep it simple, subtle and functional. And don't forget the lube.

What you need to remember is Bigger is not better

When buying a dildo or vibrator for a girl, don’t just assume that bigger is better. On the scale of things, most women prefer the popular "lady finger" vibe.

And don't scrimp on the toy. The last thing you want is the toy falling apart just when the mood is right. Having a toy not work or fall to bits at the crucial moment is going to make you look like a cheapskate....mortal sin in chick-talk!

And finally, it takes guts to go out there and buy a sex toy for your woman. So when you are presenting it to her, do it with a smile and not with sweaty palms. And sit back and let her enjoy the fruits of your labor.