Ladies, you've got competition.. Will you be able to keep these of your partners

No we are not going to talk about the extra marital stuff here. Its been too much overused to the hilt and belting out one more such story will just be a waste of cyberspace. This is just a take on the self pleasure aspect especially with pleasure objects like the sex toys which has been considered only a woman's paradise. Times are about to change that monopoly.

Its a common notion that its just women who are having all the fun? Well they aren’t, because there are a wide range of sex toys available for men these days that are becoming very popular. These male sex toys are enabling men to have as much fun as women. There is a diverse range of vibrators available that is taking men to new heights of stimulation and is helping them experience more intense orgasms just like their female counterparts.

Some of the most common and extremely popular male sex toys include fleshlights, cock rings, anal toys, penis pumps, masturbators. The list does not end here, not by any means but its just that these are the cream of the crop.

Here are some of the reviews of users who have been at the receiving end of immense pleasure, courtesy of these wonderful male sex toys.

Fleshlight User - "Fleshlights are very easy to use. Great value for money. The best sex toy for a man who wants a toy to feel like the the real thing."

Cock Rings User - "Tough competition for the engagement ring!! In excitement and pleasure, both"

Anal Toys User - "Never thought anal self pleasure was so much fun. The orgasmic feeling can only be felt, can't be described. Want to get back to the anal toy story!!"

So girls, you've got tough competition. Beware!!

Ladies, you've got competition.. Will you be able to keep these of your partners

Spice up your sex life with Nomi Tang “Better Than Chocolate” Vibrator

Nomi Tang Better than Chocolate is the ultimate in sex toys and gives the word 'pleasure' a whole new meaning. This new and unique clitoral vibrator takes sex to a new level. It is ergonomically shaped for easy use and it is also waterproof. It is made from a thermoplastic material that is body friendly. It comes nicely packaged in a velvet lined gift box, and a velvet pouch is provided with it. It is small, cute and sexy and could be the perfect gift. Nomi Tang Better than Chocolate is light weight and all it requires is two AAA batteries.

New wave of fun

This fun vibrator feels smooth and soft. It has a well balanced sound-to-vibration ratio. You can increase or decrease the speed by just sliding your finger up or down the ergonomic pad on its body. In addition to being sleek and beautiful, which makes it a discreet vibrator; it is waterproof and submersible up to one meter. It is shaped perfectly to stimulate your erogenous zones.

Heightened pleasure

This fun vibrator helps you to achieve better orgasm. It is powerful, but has variable controls so that you can heighten your orgasms by controlling the vibration. Even at the strongest level of vibration, you will find the quietest vibes you have ever experienced. It is the perfect sex toy for the fun activities you may have in mind. Nomi Tang 'Better than Chocolate' vibrator has been designed with your pleasure as the ultimate goal

Spice up your sex life with Nomi Tang “Better Than Chocolate” Vibrator

Go Green – Use Eco Friendly Sex Toys

There’s some great news for all you green-fingered environmentalists out there – you can now have sex and protect the environment at the same time. Eco-friendly sex toys are the way to go green all the way. Good to Mother Nature, these eco-friendly adult toys hit the right spot if you are looking for ways to make up for all those times you hurt her. Sounds like your idea of eco-friendly heaven? Read on.

Eco-friendly vibrators

Most people react with astonishment at the thought of using a vibrator made of wood or glass. Rest easy, nothing’s going to hurt your sensitive parts. This unique sex toy consists of replaceable parts and is manufactured from glass or wood and urethane – both materials are guaranteed to be non toxic, hypoallergenic and free from phthalates.

Green sex toys

These toys have a special place in ‘New Age’ love making. Made of metal or glass, these products are often beautifully crafted and durable enough to last for years. The production process of these sex toys is comparatively non-toxic and has very little impact on the environment. Other popular sex accessories such as paddles come in a recycled rubber material as well as suitably harvested wood.

Many of these green sex toys also come with waterproof coatings that are guaranteed not to chip or crack for a long long time. If you are truly interested in doing your bit for the environment you can use biodegradable handcuffs and whips, or hand cranked vibrators that do not require batteries.

Solar powered sex toys

Made of hygienic and unscented materials, these love buddies will soak in the sun all day and keep you busy all night. They can also be recharged by artificial light, if you’re running low on its natural counterpart. And if you are worried about running out of ‘juice’ in the middle of a session, opt for toys that can be used even while they are being recharged.

Phthalate-free sex toys

An increasing number of good environmental citizens feel the need to keep up the good work even when it comes to choosing their sex accessories. Most sex toys are made of plastic softeners known as phthalates, known to cause cancer.

Recycle your old sex toys

If you are wondering what to do with all those run down dildos and used-to-death vibrators, there are a number of sex toy services that recycle your old stuff and give you a small return on your investment. This way you can combine your passion for the environment with your passionate sex life.

Improvised sex toys

Your green sex toy may be more accessible than you imagine. Cucumbers and bananas, for instance, are inexpensive and simple alternatives for an organic dildo. You can use your old electric toothbrush or hair brush for sexual pleasure. With a little creativity and imagination, you can improvise commonly used items such as toilet paper tubes or rubber gloves into erotic sex toys.

Comb the internet for information on ways to use your sexual passion for helping the planet.

Go Green – Use Eco Friendly Sex Toys

Safe Use of Anal Beads

Anal toys have gained popularity in recent times due to the growing demand of both men and women to try new things and spice up their sex lives. Anal beads are a type of anal toys, which consist of many small beads or balls attached together in a series, which are inserted through the anus into the rectum. They are then removed at different speeds depending on the intensity of orgasm to be achieved. People who use anal beads enjoy the pleasurable feeling they get from the balls passing through their anus. This may sound painful, but anal beads give a lot of pleasure both, when inserted and withdrawn.

Booty Beads

For the ones who want more out of anal sex, Booty Beads are the ultimate sex toys. Unlike other anal toys, these vibrate between bullets and give more anal fun. Booty Beads are useful in a variety of positions. These beads are slowly inserted in the rectum through the anus, and then removed at the desired pace which makes it even more enjoyable. Your orgasm will be intensified with each bead popping out. They are a good sensory treat. Anal sex is remarkable with these beads and it is surely the next generation sex toy. Booty Beads are great for beginners as well as intermediate anal players.

Top tip: It is recommended, that anal toys are used with utmost safety and care. Good quality lube will be of much help to both the partners.

Safe Use of Anal Beads

Cock rings – Now, both you and your partner can enjoy sex toys

When cock rings first appeared on the market, they were purely a man’s plaything. But over time cock rings have evolved into sex toys that are used to have some good fun, by both men and women.

The moans keep coming

Your cock ring will not only help your erections last for a longer time, but will also make sure that your lover’s clitoris is stimulated at the same time. Add to that strategically placed pleasure knobs for your pleasure, and you have a truly extraordinary sex toy that’s going to keep pleasuring you and your partner as long as you want. These vibrating rings offer you various vibrating speeds, making sure that you and your partner feel maximum pleasure deep within the penis and clitoris.

Comfortable and convenient pleasure

Another reason why your moans of pleasure will just go on and on is the fact that this sex toy is comfortable and convenient to use. You don’t really have to do anything different while using this sex toy. All you need to do is what you usually do, and let the toy do the rest. Your penis is doing all the work; the sex toy is just improving the effect.

Another good thing about using this sex toy is that your partner is going to have little cause to be intimidated by the toy. In fact, once you get going all she is going to say is “Don’t stop” or “Keep going baby”. You must have heard people talking about the crazy sex they had or the heights of pleasure experienced. But, you won’t experience what they are talking about if you don’t use cock rings

Cock rings – Now, both you and your partner can enjoy sex toys

A Short Sex Talk at the Bar

(Edward and Jim are best friends and when they met after a long time, they had an inexplicable urge to wet their throats and talk about their (ahem) sexual problem. A few beers down, they loosened up and started talking about self pleasure)

Edward and made their way to the nearest pub, ordered two pints of Carlsberg and after discussing work woes got to an interesting (locker room) topic – self pleasure.

Edward: I am feeling a little hard done these days - work pressure, economic slump and add to that the fact that Jenna chose this time to go to “Gay Parie” for a month. Now I have to “take care” of myself; if you know what I mean?”

Jim: (Laughing) Of course I do mate! I and my trusty ol’ hand have been at it for ages!

Edward: (Arching his eyebrows) I take it Marianne is out of town?

Jim: No! She is pregnant; we’ve been off sex for months (sighing). But she is ok with me self pleasuring myself! In fact she likes watching me wank off!

Edward: Hmm, but doesn’t it get boring after a while! I mean, I have used both, my hands and the pillow, but didn’t really enjoy it that much after a while!

Jim: Know what you mean! That’s why I have gone for one of those male toys that stimulate the prostate and also bought myself a Fleshlight! Dude, the experience is simply amazing.

Edward: Had heard about those! Didn’t think they were all that they were cracked up to be! And mate! I just can’t think of putting anything right up my arse!

Jim: (guffawing loudly) Oops sorry! Have you heard of something called a lube! Just lube your anus and the male sex toy and put it in. Believe you me; it’s going to be smooth, sexy and fun (with a mock sigh of pleasure)!

Edward: Used a lube but only for my finger and penis. How’s that Fleshlight thingy!

Jim: “Pure bliss buddy, pure bliss” As far as male sex toys go, it’s the best! It’s got this realistic inner sleeve that feels like a woman’s vagina. When you insert your “little brother” into it, just close your eyes. You will be forgiven for thinking it’s a real vagina (winking). And mate! You are going to have the time of your life with the Fleshlight.

Jim: By the way, you don’t use vibrators for men; your experience of self pleasure must be really boring.

Edward: Not really! I use some great techniques that are very similar to the real thing. When I jack off, I not only lubricate my penis but my scrotum as well. I grasp my penis in such a way that my index finger points downwards towards the scrotum. I stroke deep and good, getting my scrotum into play as well. Do it and you will forget everything else!

Jim: (Smiling) Need to try that one! You seem quite the expert on techniques, did you think this out for yourself.

Edward: Experimentation is the name of the game! It’s all about feeling the pleasure!

The talk then veered away toward some other topics of the professional variety, something that might just bore you to bits.

A Short Sex Talk at the Bar

"I heart my Strap-on Dildo" - Mary-Anne

About the author: Mary-Anne is a media consultant, a wife, a feminist, a dominatrix and a cat lover. She is all for sexual experimentation and is in an open relationship for the last 3 years. Her tales are more of lust than of love.

Have you heard the phrase “Who needs a man anyway” and wonder who makes such inane statements, well here’s the answer. People like me do! It’s not that I hate men, but I can make do without them.

Yes, even in sex.

My very own strap-on-dildo

I am a confident woman, but my levels of confidence go a step higher when I use strap on dildos. I feel so much in control when I wear the strap-on dildo and get ready to use it on my partner. I have used it on women, but should I tell you a secret – I simply love it when I use it on a man. It’s an exhilarating experience. Try it sometime! If your man loves a bit of anal pounding, he’s going to love that strap-on-dildo as much as you do. Even the sight of me with my dildo on, passionately thrusting in and out of another man or woman, has my man spellbound. His subsequent orgasm is to be seen to be believed.

Wear it and experience the magic

I have a whole collection of strap ons that I use. The first strap on that I bought was an easy to use kit that has a wonderful dong and a soft harness that wouldn’t scratch my skin, when I am in the throes of passion. My next kit had a lubricant and love mask thrown in for more fun. It helped me and my partner have more fun. My third buy was a sexy looking crotch-less strap on that not only looked sexy but also felt sexy when I wore it. It had a bigger dong than my earlier buy and also a unique harness that stays put and keeps the dong firmly attached, even if the action gets rough.

My latest buy is double strap on, which helps both me and my partner’s experience penetration at the same time. I used this strapon dildo for the first time last night and experienced orgasms to die for. To see your partner writhing in ecstasy under you, while she is thrusting upwards at the same time inside of you, is something you want to experience time and time again.

Domination and fun – A potent mixture

If you love dominating your partner, like I do, then go get a strap on dildo. It’s domination, but it’s also a lot of pleasure. Your partner will cry out hoarse to be dominated even more. It’s not just because of my feminist thinking that I love a strap on so much. It’s the pleasure that I have experienced and the intense pleasure that I can give to my partner, which makes my strap on dildo my favorite sex toy.

"I heart my Strap-on Dildo" - Mary-Anne