The New Found love for Strap Ons and Something for the Beginners

You'd be surprised at the number of men who'd love to get penetrated like a woman. The idea of their partner playing the dominant one thrills many a macho man. The closest that any men can come to that is with anal sex, with or without a partner. If the idea thrills you, strap on sex toys are just perfect for you. Also many women are gradually opening up to the idea of penetrating their partner. So just put on a dildo and you can have the kind of sex you always fantasized about.

Reasons why men like strap-on sex

• They can take a back seat and enjoy while their partners do all the hard work
• Anal sex is very pleasurable and highly exciting
• Strap-on sex brings variety in otherwise dull and boring sex lives of long married couples
• Strap-ons allow for role reversal games

Reasons women like strap-on sex

• After years of being dominated, women wouldn't want to miss the chance to dominate
• Strap-on sex = Control = Pleasure
• Makes sex more exciting and thrilling
• Role reversal in the bedroom can yield results outside the bedroom too

How to use these sex toys – For first timers

Strap ons are available in a number of online stores, and if you are using it for the first time you need to check the quality of the harness (the strap that holds the dildo steadily) as well as the quality of the dildo. First time sex with a strap on dildo can be extremely sensual if it is done gently. But as you and your partner get used to it, she'll want to pound her 'cock' into you just as you pound yours into hers. This is where a good quality harness is needed to withstand the rough sex. Another thing you need to remember is to take an enema before the first penetration. It will make things easier for both of you.

The New Found love for Strap Ons and Something for the Beginners

"I heart my Strap-on Dildo" - Mary-Anne

About the author: Mary-Anne is a media consultant, a wife, a feminist, a dominatrix and a cat lover. She is all for sexual experimentation and is in an open relationship for the last 3 years. Her tales are more of lust than of love.

Have you heard the phrase “Who needs a man anyway” and wonder who makes such inane statements, well here’s the answer. People like me do! It’s not that I hate men, but I can make do without them.

Yes, even in sex.

My very own strap-on-dildo

I am a confident woman, but my levels of confidence go a step higher when I use strap on dildos. I feel so much in control when I wear the strap-on dildo and get ready to use it on my partner. I have used it on women, but should I tell you a secret – I simply love it when I use it on a man. It’s an exhilarating experience. Try it sometime! If your man loves a bit of anal pounding, he’s going to love that strap-on-dildo as much as you do. Even the sight of me with my dildo on, passionately thrusting in and out of another man or woman, has my man spellbound. His subsequent orgasm is to be seen to be believed.

Wear it and experience the magic

I have a whole collection of strap ons that I use. The first strap on that I bought was an easy to use kit that has a wonderful dong and a soft harness that wouldn’t scratch my skin, when I am in the throes of passion. My next kit had a lubricant and love mask thrown in for more fun. It helped me and my partner have more fun. My third buy was a sexy looking crotch-less strap on that not only looked sexy but also felt sexy when I wore it. It had a bigger dong than my earlier buy and also a unique harness that stays put and keeps the dong firmly attached, even if the action gets rough.

My latest buy is double strap on, which helps both me and my partner’s experience penetration at the same time. I used this strapon dildo for the first time last night and experienced orgasms to die for. To see your partner writhing in ecstasy under you, while she is thrusting upwards at the same time inside of you, is something you want to experience time and time again.

Domination and fun – A potent mixture

If you love dominating your partner, like I do, then go get a strap on dildo. It’s domination, but it’s also a lot of pleasure. Your partner will cry out hoarse to be dominated even more. It’s not just because of my feminist thinking that I love a strap on so much. It’s the pleasure that I have experienced and the intense pleasure that I can give to my partner, which makes my strap on dildo my favorite sex toy.

"I heart my Strap-on Dildo" - Mary-Anne

Strap-Ons - Women Taking Control

If you want to add variety and spice to your love life then there can’t be anything better than a strap-on. There are a number strap-on toys that you can choose, right from strap-on dildos to strap-on vibrators. If you are using a strap-on for the first time it would be a good idea to start with a strap-on dildo and progress to a strap-on vibrator. The choice is immense and you can choose from strap-ons that are made of synthetic leather, PVC, latex and various other materials. Using a strap-on is all about a woman taking control of the sexual activity.

Strap-Ons – Reverse your role

Strap-ons help women take control when they are having sex. Women who want to make sex interesting by reversing their roles during sexual intercourse can use strap-ons to penetrate their partner, anally, in the case of man, or vaginally if their partner is a woman. In both cases they are in control. They can be the dominant partner and take the lead when it comes to having sex. The great part about strap-ons is that they help women perform all sexual positions associated with normal sexual intercourse.



Women in love with strap-ons

Women, who want to make sex interesting, have started loving the use of strap-ons. The use of strap-ons makes a woman more uninhibited while having sex. She can take charge and do what she wants to do. She is only limited by her imagination. Why wouldn’t she love strap-ons? There are also strap-ons that help women experience double penetrations. Such strap-ons can be worn by men. Wearing a strap-on is seen to lend a certain kind of self confidence in women, which helps them explore new aspects of their sexuality. With a strap-on they can have more fun with their sexuality leading to an exciting sex life for the woman and her partner.

Various types of strap-ons and women using them

There are various types of strap-ons that women can use. A plus size strap-on, as the name suggests, has an adjustable waist band and can fit a 46 inch waist. A Heart Strap On has a heart shaped design and 4 way nylon straps that help its dong stay in place. There's also the Fetish Fantasy Vibrating Strap On, which is great for anal play. Women who are beginning their strap-on journey can choose the Beginners Strap On. Women can use a strap-on to have anal sex with their men or have vaginal sex with their female partner. Strap-ons also enable double penetration and quite a number of women use strap-ons for the same. In such cases it’s the men who wear the strap ons specifically designed for double penetration.

Interesting facts about strap-ons

Here are a few interesting facts about strap-ons:

Men suffering from erectile dysfunction can use a strap on to satisfy their partner

New age strap-ons are available with clitoral attachments and butt plugs for enhanced sexual pleasure

There are some women who also wear strap-ons that offer clitoral stimulation, under their clothing

Most available strap-ons don’t come in different sizes. On strap-on size fits all

Strap-ons come either with straight or curved dildos, with more variety offered by curved dildos.

Strap-Ons - Women Taking Control